Our new home: Japan!

A few weeks ago we landed in Nagasaki, our new home for a while. Many people want to visit Japan to experience its unique culture and beautiful nature, but it’s less likely they’ll end up in Kyushu, let alone Nagasaki. However, Viola started a new research position at Nagasaki University last month, while Erik is frantically pursuing his Taiwanese PhD degree from here. But of course, we are exploring Nagasaki and its surroundings as well, and there are a few things we’ve noticed and want to share with you all.

We’re sitting in a little coffee shop right now, while a police robot patrols by again. How do we know it’s a police robot? Because it’s wearing an adorable little police hat…. But things get pretty ugly later on, as Viola enters a staredown with the future while crossing paths with the police robot. Now, we should obviously take the police robot very seriously. If you get in its way, it starts shouting at you angrily (of course, we don’t understand a word), but we quickly moved out of its way…

We’re not particularly tall people, but still, everything here feels small and cute to us. The cars, affectionately dubbed “rice cookers,” are adorable little boxes on wheels, like something out of a toy set. Surprisingly, despite the aerodynamics of a house, they’re remarkably fuel efficient due to their small engine (660cc). When driving or walking through the city, it seems that all the advertisements and warning signs have gone through a cuteness filter; everything is miniaturized and “cutified,” from smiley-faced trash bins to cartoonish road signs. For example, the warning sign for landslides is a crying mountain that loses rocks. Our apartment is also tiny and cute, we had to rearrange the living room to be able to walk around a bit. We have to discuss the bathroom as well, and no, not the Japanese toilets of the future everyone is familiar with, but the prefab bathroom cubes. These bathrooms, often 1,51,52 meters, are pre-fabricated and put together like an IKEA puzzle to fit the tiniest apartments. You’ll find them in many hotel rooms, and we get to enjoy them daily. Though small, these bathrooms tick all the boxes: Toilet? Check. Sink? Check. Shower? Check. Bathtub? Check. An impressive use of space, just one tiny oversight, they forgot to leave room for an actual person! It’s so small that Erik barely fits on the toilet and might be permanently stuck in there somewhere around Christmas.

Japan is truly a land of contrasts; streets are serene, no one talks on public transport, and the bus driver practically whispers when announcing stops. But behold, the moment you step into a cheap everything-and-anything market; it’s a sensory overload of blaring announcements and a cacophony of voices that send you running for the exit. Then, just when you’re enjoying the peace and quiet on a tram, a cute and cheerful jingle pops up out of nowhere, completely shattering the calm. We also learned the hard way that you’re only supposed to exit at the front of the tram or bus (which means you often have to elbow your way out). The driver wasn’t shy about reminding us over the microphone when we tried to check out the back! But we have to mention, buses here always stop and even wait for you to sit before they move, on top of their famous punctuality.

Japanese cities don’t really have a city center, like we’re used to in Europe. This makes it a bit harder to navigate cities, but on the upside, each neighborhood has its own unique charm, with plenty of sites and restaurants to discover. And even in the tiniest towns, you’re guaranteed to find at least one Pachinko hall. Inside, you’ll be met with loud music, flashing lights, cigarette smoke and rows of pachinko enthusiasts intensely focused on their games. The best way to describe pachinko is that it’s a hybrid between pinball and slot machines, a game that requires both skill and a good dose of luck to come out on top. Nagasaki also still retains some Chinese influences, particularly during the Obon summer festival. It’s one of the few regions in Japan where you’ll hear loud firecrackers and can witness numerous fireworks displays throughout the summer. Fortunately, our neighborhood is incredibly peaceful as we’re living right on the edge of Nagasaki. Lush mountains are just a few steps away! We’ve been exploring our new backyard over the past few weeks, and every day brings new routes, trails, and hidden spots to discover. Honestly, there is not enough time in a day to explore it all!

There are many cultural practices or behaviors that we do not understand yet, or have to get used to. To us, it seems laughing is done at the strangest moments: “There is a typhoon coming, HAHAHA”. We’ve also learned it’s best to keep your opinions to yourself—unless, of course, you’re in a bar with a few beers in hand. The waste separation is next level, though the categories seem to be odd to us. By the time you’ve sorted everything into burnable, non-burnable, plastics, and recycled goods, you’ll feel like you’ve earned a degree in recycling, but isn’t all garbage burnable at a certain point? We still haven’t completely figured out the system yet, but you need at least five different trash bags. And of course, we also had to tackle all the paperwork and practices that come with moving to a new country. As no one here speaks English, and we haven’t exactly mastered Japanese yet, everything becomes a little bit more challenging. While Google translate remains your best friend, don’t get us started on opening bank accounts in Japan and their limitations for foreign residents. Fortunately, Ota Sensei (the Professor Viola is collaborating with) has been very helpful in guiding us through some of these bureaucratic processes. We also had some fun registering at the municipality and sorting out our health insurance. Apparently, they needed a “head of the household,” and when Erik pointed to Viola as the head, it threw them off quite a bit. “Wait, a woman in charge? Is that allowed?” After a few double-checks and some raised eyebrows, they finally decided to let this radical idea slide… progress, right?

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7 Responses

  1. George says:

    Een goed beeld gekregen van jullie leven in Japan en weer op zo’n humorvolle wijze geschreven. Met een grote glimlach gelezen.

  2. Joland says:

    Geweldig verhaal! Jullie kunnen je daar wel een poosje vermaken denk ik🤣

  3. MK says:

    Love your stories…!

  4. Stefanie Aue says:

    Thanks for your interesting blog articles. I hope you two enjoy your time in Japan and all the best with exploring the new region. Lovely greetings from Vienna, Stefanie

  5. Dinie Veldhuizen says:

    Wat leuk, een inkijkje in jullie leven.
    Dat wordt weer een mooi “avontuur”.
    Ook hier gaan jullie weer het beste van maken en vooral genieten.

    Lieve groet Harry en Dinie

  6. Jeannette says:

    He! Een mix van van alles en nog wat😃
    Kan me voorstellen dat dat tiny “even” wennen is. Fijn dat jullie hulp krijgen van de professor van Viola. Dat is goud waard.
    Gaan jullie proberen om Japans te leren? Niet alleen een andere taal, ook een heel andere beschaving. Intrigerend lijkt me en ook uitdagend.
    Schitterende natuur!. Dat is in ieder geval een pré. 😃
    Groetjes Jeannette

  7. Viola & Erik says:

    Thanks for all the nice responses 😀
    Bedankt voor alle berichtjes, leuk dat iedereen meeleeft/leest 😀

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